Order the Becoming Parents book
Becoming Parents: How to Strengthen Your Marriage as Your Family Grows
By Pamela L. Jordan, Scott Stanley and Howard J. Markman
Think of this book as a wilderness survival guide for your couple relationship as you trek into the wilds of parenthood. The authors provide you with scientific knowledge and survival skills for nourishing your couple relationship, taking care of yourself, and dealing with the many ways that becoming a parent impacts your life. The book includes exercises at the end of each chapter to help you really learn the key concepts and skills.